From
being toddlers fighting on the bed for a half-eaten chocolate to being world
defining corporate leaders one day, we have done it just right. From being
pinched for hiding her cellphone to being hugged fondly as we bid farewell, my
sister and I have come a long way. As I left the Novotel Hotel today wishing her luck
one last time as she steps into the professional life at Vodafone,
memories flooded me as I silently prayed for her success.
Two
years ago my sister cracked the CAT and got the opportunity to study at the
prestigious Indian Institute of Management, Indore. For someone who has been a
diligent student all her life, this was yet another milestone everybody back
home was so proud of. I was another of those everyday engineering students,
unsure of the trajectories of life ahead. It was the biggest turning point of
my life when my sister stepped in as my mentor and opened my eyes into a world
where ‘career’, ‘life’ and ‘success’ were of essence. This happened two years
ago and today that wayward young man has found his direction and added a sense
of purpose to his life.
My coming of age from a teenage blunderer to a
mature adult has been an inspirational journey for me. I have always been
inspired by my sister, her values, her thoughts and opinions on every subject,
the respect she enjoys from everybody, and above all, the immense love and
belief she has always bestowed upon me. There was a time when all seemed dark
and the light just wouldn’t shine on the road ahead. I stunned myself with the
brilliance with which I lit that path, with my own perseverance and dedication,
and my philosopher and guide beamed in its shine.
The journey has been immensely satisfying and
rewarding when I look back at everything I have gained. The inspiration to
succeed and persevere has been etched in a plethora of self-help books by
renowned ‘management gurus’ and life counselors. None of those words had the
slightest effect on me. Hrithik’s character in Lakshya was a revelation, not
because the lazy and immature boy goes on to shoulder the enormous
responsibilities of the army, but because I was relieved there were many like
me out there! At that critical juncture of my life I should have been motivated
to follow suit but the spark inside had died long after I left the theatre. The
limited exposure to the outside world and trapped in the cocoon of love of family
and friends had blinded me.
Fortunately the spark was enraged into a roaring
fire and today I stand victorious in the one lap of life which mattered the
most. A respectable score in the CAT followed by NITIE happened in a flash and
now I can look ahead with a renewed vigor. Yes, the road ahead is intense and
has no place for mediocrity, but I’m riding the waves with my mentor firmly
holding the reins, and just like Arjuna’s Krishna my sister will ensure my
victory in the Mahabharata of life. The inspiration continues and so will we,
as we set out to conquer the corporate world.
@Juhu Beach. Oh why are Goodbyes so hard!